We never really Lose until we let the things get to our head

Opportunities come and go. some of them we hit according to the situation before us. Out of these, we get the outcomes that maybe or not are in accordance to our wishes but we never ever need to moan over these because opportunities are like the balls in a cricket match resembling our lives. Some we hit, Some go to the keeper’s hands, on some we score one or two and on the others we go for a six. Big or small, every opportunity matters but we are never out of the game because in reality there are no wickets to bold us.

It is a good practice to get on with anything before you. Just get ready to tackle anything that comes your way.hqdefault This is because nobody knows what is good for him. Apparently nobody has got the power to venture the future and look what is going to happen.

For example, consider that an eligible candidate is posted faraway from home and the ineligible ones are made to stay in an office. Now maybe despite being faraway from home, the eligible candidate may get a productive environment at the place he is sent. Also maybe the geographical conditions are better there. Apparently no one knows what destiny contains in store for you.

We just need to be happy. As the wording says “Smile in front of people who don’t like, It kills them “. So if someone with hatred in his heart is laughing at your situation, you just need to show your inherent strength and laugh the moment off. Surely this kind of gesture is going to burn them inside.



Fake a Smile – A Starter pack for being nice

Human, a social animal has got a lot of people moving back and forth through his aura. So we the people who usually disguise ourselves  and never reveal our true selves to anyone we’re not comfortable with, are usually been told to be ourselves in order to be nice and rock the show.article-2014412-0CFB641900000578-390_468x582

The clause “BE YOURSELF” is usually given to understand as an advice to try to be comfortable with the individual we’re going to meet, especially the ones we are to be dating and yes it also makes sense as we can’t get into the good books of anyone we want to be with, being nervous and confined to certain boundaries while with them. So it is good to be yourself.

Also this will ensure that the person you are with will come to know you completely and will save the future “look we need to talk” thing that will end up by you being called a jerk or a bitch as you always concealed your identity in the past.

Now since we are not always comfortable with people around us. Also at times, we don’t have a reply to what they say. In such cases even if you’re offended but still you try to be cool as whatever the person says doesn’t matter you much because you just don’t care, it is good to just Fake a Smile. This will make you be a better social being as you will resemble a nice individual and also they might realise their mistake and will surely never do the same again.

Now consider another case here –

Maybe one of your friend has got somewhere in his mind that he has done something huge that you as an individual don’t consider being so jolly about.

For example maybe your friend has got a girlfriend finally and you are just alone still. In such a case every time he brings this up mocking you, you can just fake a smile in reply. It is same as Doctor Sheldon Cooper does when Rajesh was being named as one of the 30 under 30 to watch, by the People’s magazine in the very popular TV show “The Big Bang Theory”. Many of you might have now got the idea.

Going this way, you’ll not only be able to save your friendship but also resemble a person who appreciates a friend’s achievements no matter how small they are.

So just be yourself always and project positive vibes that attract people without being mean by adjusting the way you react to a weirdo. Fake a Smile if u will.

The Lines I wrote to wish a Girl…

Once the Holy Heaven was at stake, there was a girl whose charm God’s weren’t able to take.

To set their head’s free of her beauty she was dropped on earth, Naughtiness and kindness were in her by birth.

Light in the eyes and glow on the skin, like the north pole world around her used to spin.

Since the first day we met, I have shown in her interest so keen, have always been asking until now where this good friend of mine have been!

Exams in life resemble Driving a car

When you learn to drive and go out on a busy road for the first time, you’re almost in a constant terror of the obstacles coming towards you far away in the form of other cars. Somebody is reversing while another one is slowing down to diverge into an exit and yet another one is just throwing profanity on a nearby driver. But you as a young driver is caught up in a frenzy of fear which eventually goes away as you reach by those cars and apparently cross them.

Then after some years of excellence in driving you just don’t give a damn about what is far away and just drive safely and soundly through any road even if you have never been there before.

The same notion persists for the Exams that students at high schools and universities take. Although learning the syllabus is highly recommended before the exams and so does the mindset about what is yet to come but still some of the topics that are not that easy for you as the others are left and you are again caught in the same far away thoughts about what will happen as you pace towards the future.

So my dear readers whether young school students or the ones caught up in middle of the Exam of life, just for a moment stop thinking about what is yet to come, mark your work, make good strategy, enjoy and do complete the prerequisites and never fall because if you do, there is nothing in the world to be alive for.

Tackle each exam one by one, no need to rush. Make a good plan in the before exam holidays and start implementing but don’t forget to enjoy and have the last laugh. Work hard and then reward your achievements no matter how small they are. In the exams focus on the subject you are going to face first, take the exam then focus on the second and never ever regret about what you have already done. Just prepare for the next cause you have got no time to moan your mistakes. Just Go Ahead.

Thank you


Thinking is Free, So do more of it!

ThinkBiglogoHaving Experienced a thing you always have a particular image of it in your mind. Whether it be going to a place that makes you jubilant or may it be a movie, Our mind forms an image of the same. At moments, hearing things for the first time make a mental representation, mostly of the things that make you feel excited and aspired to see. But eventually when you see it in reality, it changes your perspective. Have you ever wandered what was your perception before going to a party and eventually after that. It might be a yes!. All of us almost had at times this situation.  why_you_must_think_positive

Although it happens to us but only occasionally, whenever we are rejuvenated by thinking of that “The Food for Thought”. Apart from those exciting ventures we hardly bother about to think of the routine work and occasions.

I today have felt that having in mind a notion about something you’re pretty soon going to do or the place you are going to be at is good. When we compare “what we thought of it before” with “what we think of it now”, it opens up a whole new mindset and makes us wiser and adds up to us learning new things.

For Example, I never had thought about the meaning of the movie “The Fault in our stars” until I watched it and now I wander what would I had thought of the title before if I could have given some stress to  think about it. It would have given me something knowledgeable as I aspire about learning the English Language more & more.

So, according to me I think thinking about stuff before doing it and eventually after doing it and then comparing the both can take our mind to an exceptionally greater level.

Generate Ideas:


New and fresh Ideas need a lot of thinking before to actually get one of those massively exciting and fascinating to others too. You think of something and try to research more and google it. To your surprise there’s always someone out there already giving a lot to the same idea and all you do now is to moan about the same. But if on the other hand, you have a beauty of thinking already waking you up in the morning with fresher ideas, just imagine how cool it would be? Not only you will be preached at work but also you’ll feel your worth.

So think Big and apparently Different and let the positive vibes roll in.creative-A

Reply and comment if you have some views about the same or you have ever had this kind of thought in your mind because “Thinking Sharpens us” as we all know. So put on your Thinking Caps to “Think Big and Beautiful”.

Let’s be HAPPY…..Question Yourself cause only that’s what it takes to get rid of Memories

MEMORIES…These Hurt The Most. 7626438-Close-up-of-a-yellow-pencil-erasing-the-word-memories-from-old-yellowed-paper-Stock-Photo

Memories, Some we cherish others we hate. Time passes by as if sand falls from the hand. No one has got the power to have a grip over it. It waits for nothing and no one. We are born, than we grow up and eventually we become old, weak and wise and finally we surrender at the hands of death. We are not known to the fact that what is gonna happen to us in the afterlife. So instead of letting go we need to know exactly what is to be done to make our life better, controlled and fun. I had recently read something, that now has an immense impression on me. It said… You should Question yourself – ” What you do to make yourself Happy? “ Answering the question, will lead you to a way where not only you will be happy but also you will be doing something that you will love since you are happy doing it and that particular field of your interest will be very fruitful and so you will never get bored, always love to work and there will be no sign of old memories that have haunted you for years.

Lost Someone Intimate:

Everyone Born has to leave one day. Yo might have read or even heard the phrase that “Nothing Lasts Forever“. This Phrase needs to be kept in mind otherwise you will either be arrogant at the possession of something/someone and will eventually loose your pace once you get separated from that and it will be hard for you to get back together again. The pain, The Memories will not let you live unless you find a way to be happy/busy again.

Unlike the Lifeless things, Memories of somebody living may be much more difficult to get through.

So you Lost your Dog?

Pets are an intimate part of our lives. They adore us in a way that cannot be expressed. The pet’s Love is without conditions. Although you have to put the food in their bowl, but regardless of this they even don’t complain for anything and this is what takes us too far into being warm with them. But since they don’t have a long lifespan like human’s, so they’re to leave one day.

My dog died this year on 15 Jan 2015. I was mourning at his death. He’s was my first Dog and eventually my first Pet. I was very sad at loosing him. I couldn’t do well for a month after he died. I thought about me taking him for a walk. Spending time with him since I was a child. I used to sit beside him and say to him the problems that i was having at times. I remembered how he used to listen to me very quietly and providing me a way to release the inner emotional turmoil.

But after 3-4 months my father got me another dog. He’s now a good part of my life and an intimate too. I share my feelings with him. He Loves me and loosing my first Dog made me an animal lover cause he reminded me how much i loved him. Now  shower all the love i have for animals on my pet and he does the same for me. He is always rejuvenated at seeing me like we are meeting after a long time.

So getting out of memories is very easy if we put the right step at the right time.

How to replace a relation?

Getting a new Dog is very easy but getting a new brother isn’t. Now since you have lost a family member or an intimate friend of yours, so it seems almost impossible to vacate and ultimately fill the space he/she left behind in your heart with someone else.

And yes!….you shouldn’t do this. Never be so much fast into finding the new person, you will fail for sure. After you have lost someone you might be in an urge to fill the space but it is not a good practice to hit on everyone you meet. You still need to abide by your terms of friendship. The “Terms” here doesn’t mean the conditions but the qualities of a good friend that you yourself have laid down somewhere in your mind. The one you consider being a good friend must be approached not everyone.

But at times it isn’t possible to find another. In that very situation get yourself some work to do. Some real work that makes you cheer up and provides a good fortune so that you are not reminded of your left out part.

Getting through memories:

Now coming to the other things one can do to get rid of memories.

1. One should never ever try to loose all the memories of someone intimate. Some of them might be cherish-able. Without memories we’re nothing. Obviously you need something to tell someone you meet to get the conversation going. If you have some really good memories, you’ll be able to tell them and make your day.


2. Good memories need to be told everyone, but what to do with the Bad ones?come to terms with them. Try to know what is haunting you. what is getting into your way being happy. whether be good or bad, you have learnt something from each one of that. so you are better now and there was not your fault behind anything that got wrong. So recognize the haunting memories. At this point half of the work of getting out of harsh memories is done.

3.Now since you know the origin of those harsh and painful memories just remember what you have learnt from those and make the lesson settle into your heart by either writing it down on your personal diary or just reminding it yourself for some days. By this you’ll come to terms with the origin and ultimate solution to these kind of memories and you will eventually originate as being more powerful and strong.

Memories of the Girlfriend:

Nowadays it has become a tradition for getting in touch with a new girl and cutting off with old ones. People think of it as a game. They don’t even bother about considering if they really Love the person or are they just making time pass. But the pain of loosing someone who we really Love is unbearable.

People leave us, whatever be the reason hatred, worries, career, profession and even Death. This is  the Bitter truth that everyone needs to remember and this is the one that everyone of us forgets about.

So they’re gone leaving a place that is sometimes not compatible to be filled be anyone else around us.

Those still around us, who love us try to fill in but the walls we have built by the time around ourselves to be secure of the world who leaves us hinder anyone from getting into our lives. What we’re left with is just the loneliness and that’s the menace that takes over us after sometime as we slowly forget about past.

Now we are alone and no one, who had known us lately tries to befriend us because of the reasons we gave them.

For Example let’s just think your Girlfriend left you, whatever be the reason. You tried to contact her, tried to resolve the issues you both had but you finally end up with nothing in your hands. You feel lonely and let no one enter your life. Not even the girl who has a crush on you. You think she’s not the one for you. She strives hard to be in your life but ends up being a friend or a stranger.

Surely, She’s not gonna hit you again. So you are alone. YES!…you cannot be with a girl whom you don’t Love but at least tackle the situation positively and tell them the reason you can’t be with them.

The solution is that just share the feelings with that girl as a friend or any friend of yours to get some inner peace and never “Rush to have a new Girlfriend“. Just stay calm, the right person will arrive sooner or later at the right time and will hit you like the cupid’s arrow.

So Stay Happy….and Question yourself…..What you do to be Happy?happy-birds


Strength Buildup is a medium to make our readers get through vivid situations of today’s lifestyle and hectic surroundings. I have termed this a WOESCAPE, The outlet of distress. I will try to write the posts about the ongoing worries that one needs to tackle from childhood to old days as well as the Good times that life has got in store for us and that needs to be approached in a positive way.

I will make sure you find the stuff here, related to your lives as the things I will be discussing are quite often faced by each one of us.

I am also looking into having an experience through your valuable comments as they will surely add up to the point of view that I present and will make the situation a kind of more General for all than Particular.

So welcome to all, lets begin the journey and present the finest persona of our character and image to those around us .